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#88. beyonce, blank slates & having an emergency contact

Writer's picture: Devyn Penney Devyn Penney



Age: 32

Relationship Status: Single

Occupation: Journalist

Income: 78k

Astrological Sign: Virgo


What is the first thing you do when you wake up?

I pee, then walk and feed my dog, and then check my phone. No screens before I am done with my pup. 


Have you ever felt genuine fulfillment? When?

Yes. When I am at a concert with friends, my heart is so full. Beyonce Renaissance , for instance - best night.


What is your most repetitive, negative thought?

Life is very hopeless. I feel like there is no hope in dating. I have little hope that I can get a better job. It can feel "hopeless" that I'll get ahead.


What is your most repetitive, positive thought?

Life is wild, but I have so many things to be grateful for. 


What is one thing that surprised you about adulthood?

We all are clueless as fuck. 


What are three things you want to put every woman onto? 

  1. DON'T STARVE YOURSELF / DIET FOREVER! You will ruin your relationship with food, and your body can't stay in a deficit forever.

  2. Learn how to protect yourself. Physically / spiritually/ mentally/ emotionally.

  3. Laser hair removal is worth every penny.


Rank the following from most to least important:

money, food, sex, love, and laughter (feel free to explain or don’t).

love/ money/laughter/ sex/ food

I feel like this could change daily, but right now, that's where I'm at.


How has your relationship with your parents/ guardians changed in adulthood? 

My mom and I have more of a friendship now, which is really nice. She always means well and is doing her best. I do not rely on her as much anymore, but I do know she is always there if I need her. 


When do you feel most like yourself? 

I feel fully myself when I am doing something physical. Yoga, working out, pole classes.


Or when I am with my girlfriends drinking wine and eating a cheeseboard.


What is the best compliment someone has ever given you? 

On a yoga retreat, I was told that I am inspirational. It stuck with me since.


How do you feel about falling in love? 

Hopeless. Dating used to be fun, but in the last two years, it has been rough. I don't want to waste my time going on meaningless dates. My time is limited, and I want to do something fun with it.


What is one thing you’re sick of hearing?

That I will change my mind about not wanting children. Or that I'll regret not having children when I am older. Can you imagine if people without children told parents they would regret having children? People would lose it. 

 

How often do you feel alone?

Occasionally, I feel isolated when I am surrounded by people or when I am reminded that I am "alone," like when people ask why I don't have a partner or when I fill out an emergency contact list. 


What is one thing you hope everyone experiences in their lifetime?

Live somewhere different than where you grew up. You learn so much about yourself when you start over and have a blank slate. 


What is one thing you hope no one has to experience in their lifetime?

Losing a parental figure when at a young age. I lost my father to alcoholism at 17 years old. I often wonder what my life would be like if that didn't happen. 


What is the best decision you’ve ever made?

Moving around and settling in a city. I feel like I gained my independence and learned what kind of environment I wanted to live in. Recently, it has been starting pole classes; I've become more comfortable in my skin and have become proud of what my body can do. It’s also such a great community.


When do you feel most at ease?

When I have a free day with nothing on my to-do list. No alarms. 

 

What does having a successful life mean to you? 

Living comfortably, Feeling fulfilled. Being healthy. Loving and being loved. 


How often do you think about your body? Everyday. I am working with a trainer now to build a better relationship with my body and food. It has been such a game-changer.


When do you ask for help? 

Rarely, which can cause me a lot of unnecessary stress and resentment.


What is something you feel strongly about?

Being informed. Have an idea of what's going on in the world so you can make informed decisions. Also, always be respectful to people in the service industry. 

 

BONUS: Tell me something good. 

Next Friday is my birthday! I am not anxious about getting older this year; I am excited to celebrate. 

 

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