#424. a new Volvo, verbal abuse & having a bestie of 50 years

Age: 62

Relationship Status: divorced

Occupation: veterinary sales

Income: 150,000

Astrological Sign: Libra

Describe your ideal morning:

Having coffee with my cat on my lap.

What is the last thing you think about before going to sleep?

My schedule for the next day.

If you could talk openly about any of the following ‘taboo’ subjects at a dinner party: politics, religion, money, or sex, what is one question you would pose to the table?

I’d talk about politics.

What is something you wish were taught in school?

Money management.

How do you define personal happiness?

Being divorced and free to do things that bring me joy. 

When do you feel most helpless?

When my daughter is struggling with her mental health.

What is something you are nostalgic about?

Camping with my family when I was a kid.

When does, or will, your life feel complete?

When I’ve made a difference in people’s lives. Something I hope I’ve done. But I’ll continue.

What is something you have forgiven, but will never forget?

Verbal abuse from my ex.

What is one decision that seemed small at the time, but completely changed the direction or course of your life?

Getting laid off from a toxic job.

What is something that comes easily to you?

Being joyful and kind.

What is the hardest thing you’ve ever done?

Believe in myself.

Where is your favorite place on Earth?

Copenhagen.

If you woke up tomorrow and were in charge of EVERYTHING, what would be the first thing you would do to make the world a better place?

Food and Healthcare for all.

Finish this sentence: money can’t buy you happiness, but it can afford you…

Peace. And pets.

What is the best thing you have been gifted or purchased on your own within the last year? 

My new Volvo. My dream car.

If you could give a woman who is 10 years younger than you a single piece of advice, what would it be?

Don’t accept the status quo. You deserve more.

Is there anyone who knows everything about you?

Yes. My bestie of 50 years.

If you knew that life was short, what is one thing you would do right now?

Travel.

If you knew that life was long, what is one thing you would do right now?

Give to others.

BONUS: Tell me something good.

Singing brings joy to your heart.