Age: 23
Relationship Status: In a relationship
Occupation: Customer Success
Income: 43k
Astrological Sign: Cancer sun, Leo rising, and Virgo moon
What is the most important part of your daily routine?
My mornings. I love quiet mornings and getting things done before most people are awake. I usually go to the gym, which always clears my mind. I also love the process of getting ready for the day. When I’m put together, I feel like I can truly conquer the day!
What is your current happiness most dependent on?
My fitness. I feel really happy once I’ve completed a really hard workout, gone on a run, or achieved a new personal best. I think a lot comes down to the ‘happy’ hormones released after being active, but it’s also the sense of achievement. I feel proud of myself and happy that I’ve pushed through.
What do you wish you were less reliant on?
TikTok.
When do you question yourself?
When I have negative thoughts, whether it be about myself or the future, or when I catch myself complaining about something, I have to question why I feel this way and how to overcome it. I’m an overthinker, so I try my best to stay in the moment, focus on the positive, and be grateful
What is something that has positively impacted how you perceive your self-worth?
Doing things alone. I used to lack independence and was honestly scared of doing things alone, but now I love it. I love being in my own company and experiencing new things by myself. My favorite things I’ve done alone are going to a concert, the cinema, new fitness classes, a theater show, and museums, none of which I would have done before. It makes me feel whole, knowing I can fully enjoy these things solely in my own company.
What is something you have forgiven yourself for?
For all those times I poured my heart out to someone who didn’t deserve it anymore. There was a time when I was begging someone to stay in my life, when they had hurt me. Afterwards, I felt embarrassed doing this, for letting someone see me in such a low state and for feeling so small. I forgive myself for feeling this way; my sensitivity and vulnerability are not weaknesses. When I feel an emotion, I feel it deeply, and I will never regret expressing it.
What is something you have forgiven someone else for?
For breaking my trust and my heart.
How do you ground/center yourself?
Journaling, taking deep breaths, and going on really long walks allow me to feel at one with myself and get all my thoughts out.
What is one thing that helped you through your most difficult time?
My friends. After my breakup with my ex, I was a mess. I tried to bring my life back together, but whenever I had a breakdown, they were always there. They wiped my tears, hugged me until I fell asleep, made me laugh, checked in on me regularly, and helped me pick myself back up. They constantly reminded me how amazing I am, and I don’t know what I would’ve done without their support. I am forever grateful to have them in my life.
Have you ever felt like the best version of yourself? When?
I feel like the best version of myself right now. I am the most focused, disciplined, and confident version of myself. I find myself laughing a lot more, stressing less, and being content with the path I’m on right now. I feel like I have found my spark again.
What is something you fundamentally disagree with?
Men dictating what women do with their bodies. Whether that be their health, clothing, sex - I don’t want to hear it.
What is something you know for sure?
I am a good person.
Evil eye is real.
Everything will work out.
What are three of your non-negotiables in romantic relationships?
Honesty
Consideration
Actual romance!! - the lovergirl in me believes the spark can always be kept alive.
When do you feel most comfortable in your own skin?
I try to always feel comfortable in my own skin. It’s been hard because my skin hasn’t been great this year, but it’s getting better. I have also consciously been trying to embrace a natural look more. I stopped getting eyelash extensions after years of always having them, and I try to wear my hair naturally more often.
Have you ever been in awe of something/someone? When?
I am in awe of nature. I’m a sucker for sunsets, the moon and the ocean. It’s just so beautiful; how can you not be in awe of it?!
I am also in awe of my mother and sister. We have endured a lot, and they are my two pillars. I know love and strength because they have been prime examples throughout my life.
What is the best (physical/material) gift you have ever received?
Every bouquet of flowers I have ever received. Everyone in my life knows I love flowers; I always get a bunch on special occasions, and I love how beautiful they are. I always have flowers in my flat, it makes me happy!
Also, I like any cards with sweet messages on them. I love re-reading them.
What is one thing you wish you had said ‘yes’ to in the past?
I can’t think of anything big enough to remember.
What is one thing you will always say ‘no’ to in the future?
Going out when I don’t want to. Fomo doesn’t exist to me.
What do you believe is your most attractive quality?
How hard I love. I love love. I make everyone in my life feel loved out loud; I will remember the small things, give thoughtful gifts, and never make you feel like you are without love.
What/who do you want to be when you grow up?
I want to be a well-travelled, successful, and impactful woman who beams positivity and love.
BONUS: Tell me something good.
I’ve recently started drawing and painting again. I think it is my true talent and passion; I hope one day it becomes a source of income for me! I never thought it could be before. I love that my creative side is flourishing again.
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