#415. dark romance, daily workouts & getting your shit together

Age: 21

Relationship Status: Taken

Occupation: Direct Service Advocate

Income: 4,000 a month

Astrological Sign: Gemini

What is something you look forward to every day? 

My daily workout for sure.

Describe how your year thus far is going, using only three words: 

Better than expected.

What is the most valuable thing you have earned? 

Probably the trust of the people in my life.

What is the most precious thing you have lost? 

It’s stupid, but I used to have this stuffed dog that my dad gave me, and I lost him on a road trip.

Fill in the blank: if loving _____ is wrong, I don’t want to be right. 

Dark romance. Miss me with all the fuckass discourse (eye roll).

Is there a moment in your life where preparation has met opportunity? Did you take it?

Definitely with my current job, I got it right after graduating with my bachelor's and was the first person in my friend group to get a ‘real-people job’.

In a room full of people, who are you looking for? 

My mom, or someone else who looks extremely uncomfortable.

What is the most impactful, published piece of writing you have read?

(this could be a book, a poem, an article, a study, etc.)

The School for Good and Evil by Soman Chainani, I own like 3 different copies and every book in the series, that book changed my brain chemistry. I reread it every year and had to reattach the cover back on a few years ago. It’s not even like self-help or anything, it’s literally a YA fantasy book.

When I am self-loathing, I tend to…

Cry, and internalize it.

When I am self-loving, I tend to…

Go out, spend time with people, drink.

If you had endless amounts of talent and skill, what would you want to be famous or known for? 

Writing. I love to write and want to publish a book someday.

How does the best relationship in your life make you feel? 

Fulfilled, supported, and loved. He has done nothing but support me, even if we’re doing long distance.

When do you feel most inspired? 

When I’m in the woods, or in the studio.

What is something that your inner child needs to hear from you?

It’s okay to be angry; that’s normal.

What is something that your future self needs to hear from you?

You better get your shit together cause I sure as hell don’t have it together now.

Do you ever wonder what your life would be like if you had made a different decision, and do you wish you had? 

For almost every decision I make.

If money were no object, what is one thing you would have an unlimited supply of? 

Books. And Scream memorabilia. And yarn.

What is the most predictable thing about you? 

I read, and I’m a girl's girl.

What is the most unexpected thing that has ever happened to you? 

My best friend bought us tickets to Star Wars Celebration 2027.

Describe a time that you were in awe of your own courage or bravery: 

Literally any time I express my opinion. Ever. 

BONUS: Tell me something good. 

The sun is starting to come out!!!